Its Monday night and I am still feeling the effects of Saturday night. Or Sunday morning, whichever way you choose to look at it.
My girl Lee just got back from Canada after spending 10 months living it up o/s, so we celebrated her return to Oz in true bogan style. At the pub.
Had a fantastic night and my god, those jagermeister shots? Fucking lethal.
Most memorable conversation was at about 3.30am..... re: threesomes. All 4 of us agreed that we would have one if it were 2 girls 1 bloke. Mind you, one of us at the table WAS a bloke. So his answer wasn't all that suprising.
So got me thinking about the 3 in the bed issue again. I havent ever done it. But have wanted to for a while, and I am not sure exactly what is holding me back. I am not a jealous person so I'm pretty sure seeing my boy with another chick is not going to be a big problem. Maybe its how I am going to feel about it after? Or how the boy is going to feel? Its the not knowing how we are feel that I think I am bothered by.
Should it be someone I know or someone I dont? My personal opinion is that I do NOT want to know the person. But on the same hand I don't want to have sex with some random female I know nothing about.
Anyone done it and want to share?
6 comments:
I've done it quite a few times
i've been the "other" woman with a couple, was easy for me because i wasn't the one watching my boyfriend bonk another girl
i've also been in a relationship where we have brought another girl into our bedroom. once witha friend once with a stranger.
the friend one was easy because i knew her and completely trusted her, but that the same time i was paranoid because my boyfriend at the time also knew her. so it playe on my mind a lot afterwards about how many he liked her more, would they start something on the side etc etc.
the stranger was someone i met online, (ugh how sluttly am i?) i spoke to her a few times before we met at a hotel. i made sure i was always around so they couldn't swap details (how sad i know) and my boyfriend and i at the time also used fake names. just for our own safety.
i think with the stranger i went a bit more wild,. knowing i wouldnt ever see her again therefore could completely let go.
if its something you want to try, go for it, but before you do sit downa nd write out a list of pros and cons for both a stranger, and a friend.
if you go with a friend, make sure that its someone you know you can completely trust, and that you feel comfortable around
Good luck!
it can lead to bad things - trust me.
Leah - NO! Not slutty. Good on you. I still dont really know if I have the balls to do it yet, so we'll see.
As for a friend, I think this scenario will be less likely to happen. Maybe someone I vaguely knew, but not a good mate.
Surviving myself - you seem to speak the truth. Maybe I shoulda just done it when I was single and didnt have to worry about the complications!
I tried but I'm a jealous beeyotch and as soon as my boy kissed this other girl, I got all twisted over it.
We tried it with someone we know and it really ruined our friendship. I didn't trust my boy and friend alone lol!!
Steph, I dont think jealousy will be an issue for me, we have lived together for 7 years and I know he wouldnt go behind my back.
But def would ease both our minds if it was someone we would never have to see again, rather than a close mate who comes over all the time, mutual friends etc etc.
I'll keep everyone posted if it should happen!
geez, now I am sitting at my desk and all i can think about is 3somes and fucking! Arrrggghhhh!!!!!!!!!!! Someone throw a bucket of cold water over me.....
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